Managing New Hire Hazing
I have a terrific group of professional colleagues I network with on a consistent basis. We share ideas, war stories and moral support for all things we enjoy and endure in our careers. Not long ago, I met one of my networking friends for dinner. She had started a new job a few months ago and provided an update on how it was going …. In a word … bumpy. “Why?” I asked. Her new peers and co-workers were hazing her. You know – making it tough for her to get acclimated, giving her a hard time about small mistakes typically made by a newbie and escalating any of her minor infractions to her boss.
You’re kidding?! No — even though this is stuff that should go on in high school and frat houses, it’s a reality in the workplace as well. Yes – some adults still get a kick out of making others miserable. Call it survival of the fittest, bullying, the thrill of conquering another or simply “hazing.”
As a manager, what should you do if someone you recently hired is being hazed by their peers? We’ll be working our way through this topic in this latest Management Secrets blog series. Our focus will center on making sure your new hire: has a quality experience with onboarding and understanding priorities and expectations, understands how to navigate the organization, and has your managerial support when hazing occurs.
Onboarding and expectations. We all know one of the toughest things about finding a new job is finding a good fit as well. Managers need to be diligent in the hiring process to do their best to find someone who meets the “fit” requirements; namely has the skills to do the job, will actually get the work done and will blend in well with the rest of the team and their cross-functional peers. Easy to say — challenging at times to accomplish. To help your new hire get off to a great start, you, the manager, need to spend time with them. Yes – that most precious of all commodities – time.
Provide your new hire with onboarding sessions (one, two or more meetings as needed) that clearly explain what their role is, what are their expectations and goals, what success looks like and how their performance will be measured. Make sure you provide them with an onboarding buddy as well which will help them safely ask all the dumb questions that come up for the new kid such as: How to file an expense account, what’s the best corporate cell phone plan and the like. Have your new person attend group training for new employees where they’ll find out where and how to access all the necessary resources needed for becoming a productive contributor.
These are great starting points which are centered on one theme: as a manager, YOU must make sure your new employee gets started off on the right foot. Don’t just throw the new kid in the ocean and expect them to swim … give them swimming lessons first. In my next blog installment we’ll talk about what happens when the “swimming” begins and your new hire starts navigating their way through the organization. I look forward to seeing you then.





